how to approach women

Let me tell you a secret. Women want you. Whether you are already a pick-up king who's reading
this book to hone your skills, or a shy man who hasn't had much luck with girls, you can be taught to
communicate with women effectively, and get more dates that you can handle.
First, let's think about what women want.
Women want to be desired and admired, but not leeched over. They want to believe that you want
their brains as well as their bodies. You'll see later on in this book that this is why lame chat up lines
NEVER work.
Girls are romantic. We all want to meet that special person. But let's face it, while we are waiting for
that special person, we still want to have some fun with some guys along the way.
It doesn't matter whether you are overweight, have a poorly paid job, or aren't the world's best
looking guy. Women aren't shallow. They can see past these things. That is why if you are genuine, and
know how to talk to girls; there are women all over your town who want to date you, sleep with you,
maybe even marry you.
By following the advice and steps laid out here, you really can learn how to get any girl.
We will begin by looking closely at your presentation. Are you presenting yourself in the best possible
light? Turning to your communication techniques, we will build your confidence and help you conquer
your fear of rejection. We'll then examine the pros and cons of some common hunting grounds.
Next, after interpreting body language, small talk and pick-up lines, we will look at how to convert
a casual acquaintance into a girlfriend. That's when things will hot up, and we'll graduate to the
bedroom. After all, that is the end game.

1 - Start at the beginning
Before you try to pick up another girl, stop.
Let's analyze what you are trying to do here. This is a sales situation. You are trying to sell the idea of
yourself to a woman. You're trying to convince her that you're attractive, funny, interesting and sexy.
If you go into a store to buy a shirt, you want to buy one that is clean, nicely folded, presented with
the best effort that the salesman can. It's the same with your personal presentation.
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2 - Overcoming your fear of rejection

When most men are asked what stands between them and their dream girl, they cite fear of rejection.
It's the thought that goes around your head as you approach girls. You make your way slowly across
the room, and you're sure that the crowd of people watching can see your hands shaking. You finally
get near to her, and think your heart is beating so loudly that everyone in the room can hear it. She
turns to you. Then you get the look. You know, the one that makes it clear she thinks you're a bug on
a log. Your palms start to sweat. You ask if you can buy her a drink. Surely she'll say no. Why would
this beautiful girl say yes? She grimaces at you. Here we go. Time for the big heave-ho. But no! She
reaches into her bag and pulls out her glasses. "That's better," she says. "I can see you now. I'll have a
beer, please.
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3 - Places to meet girls

The gym
If you meet a woman at the gym, you already have a head start. You have something in common -
exercise. This can immediately be used as a topic of conversation to bond over. Ask if she is training
for a particular event, or just visiting the gym to relax. Perhaps ask if she knows of any good circuit
training classes. If she does, great, you can go along to that session and see if she wants to go for a
coffee afterwards.
Obviously, in the gym, she will be sweaty and scantily clad. Please do not refer to this fact. You may
find it highly attractive, but she would rather you didn't mention it.
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4 - The importance of body language

Now that we have decided on the venue for meeting women, how are you going to communicate our
interest and read their signs?
Picking up on signals from body language is something we do automatically, before we even open our
mouths. It is deeply rooted in our brains to interpret the signs that another person's behaviour gives
off. That's why it's important to pay attention to your own body language, to ensure that the signals
you are giving off match your intentions and encourage female attention.
There are basically two types of body language - open and closed.
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5 - The secrets of effortless dating

At this point, your mind might fill with chat up lines your friends have assured you will lead to
bedroom success. Such witticisms include:
Are you tired? Because you've been running through my dreams...
Do you know CPR? Because you take my breath away...
I've lost my phone number. Could you give me yours?
Now that you've seen them written down, don't chat-up lines sound lame?
Let me tell you a secret. If you have ever persuaded a girl to go out with you, or, more accurately, to
go home with you, it will be despite and not because of any chat up lines you've used. For a start,
using a "line" doesn't make a girl feel special. Why would she, when you've clearly used this routine a
hundred times before?
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6 - Converting the hook-up to a date

If you've ever worked in sales you'll know that there is a magic moment when you have to declare
your interest, and close the deal. What you are looking for is a commitment to further involvement,
whether that means the lady coming home with you that night or meeting you next week for a date.
Perhaps you've been too nervous to take things to the next stage before, or misread the signs and
been surprised to get a brush-off.
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7 - Dating Etiquette

Be yourself
It's tempting to really go overboard on dates in a new relationship and try to be the perfect guy. Of
course you should make an effort to impress your new woman, but if you depart too much from your
real personality, she will pick up on the effort it is taking and dismiss you as a fake.


8 - Moving things on

The First Kiss
As ever, dental hygiene is of paramount importance for kissing. There is nothing more off putting to a
woman than smelling your last meal on your breath. Or even worse - the meal before last.
Start gently with kisses, and let her lead the way. You may be surprised by how keen she is to take
things further if you hold back a little.

9 - In the bedroom

The first time together
For the first time you sleep together, there's no doubt that the pressure's on. After all, you've been
building up to this since you first spotted her. You want to perform well, enjoy yourself, and leave her
panting for more!
Let's look at this situation from the woman's perspective


10 - Relationship dos and don'ts

Here is a list of relationship dos and don't s to guide you.
DO
Treat each other with respect
Keep details of your relationship (especially sexual things) confidential. Otherwise you will lose trust in
each other.


11 - When things don't work out

If you are doing the finishing
The kindest, most decent thing you can do is tell a girl gently and to her face that the relationship is
not working out. There are very few bunny boilers out there. Once you have dealt with the initial tears
(if any), then your conscience will be clear and you can move on.



Conclusion

Unless you have a part in a porn film, a hot girl is never going to ring the doorbell and throw herself at
you. You need to be proactive, and take steps to get out there and find that girl yourself.
Using the tips and techniques you have learnt from this book, conquer your fear of rejection and start
picking up more girls.